Dating taking things slowly
If your girl wants to take things slow, stop thinking about what you aren't doing and focus on the now. Take your relationship day by day, staying in the present and not worrying about what will happen a week, a month or even a year from now.Based in Pittsburgh, Erica Loop has been writing education, child development and parenting articles since 2009.There isn't any because those are things you do that would mean NOT "taking it slow".You can't take things slow and somehow have exciting passionate romance at the same time..be patient and put away the romance novels. That means being honest with the other person if you just don't feel the chemistry and want to be friends only as well as honestly on "where things stand" at all times.Examples: Hugs and kisses on the cheek, cuddling on the couch, sleeping in the same bed and cuddling Romantic gestures should be kept under a certain level of control.So making her a candlelit dinner is fine, but sending her flowers to her work after the second date isn't.Instead of giving in to your fast-track mind, rushing to a level that she isn't ready for, practice patience.
It means you two are taking time to get to know one another and making an investment in one another.For example, perhaps she's grown up with religious beliefs that say she shouldn't get into a mature relationship until she's ready for marriage.Or, perhaps she had a past relationship that ended badly, so she's less comfortable speeding things along in this new relationship.Her articles have appeared in "Pittsburgh Parent Magazine" and the website PBS Parents.
She has a Master of Science in applied developmental psychology from the University of Pittsburgh's School of Education.I wanted to start a new topic on the idea of taking things slow in a RL.